Daily Archive for October 31st, 2006

Furry Antics

Furry Antics-Tuesday, October 31, 2006-1:48AM

After a full night of social adventures I slept most of the day away. I got in bed at 8am Monday morning and got up various times during the day to take care of the Three Stooges Captain, Gracie and Bella. Bella and Captain have come to an understanding of sorts. If he leaves something in the bowl she can have it. Never walk under him from tale to head expecting to steal food without the possibility of being barked at and chased away. Since Captain never leaves anything in his bowl she skips right to just staying away. Right now she’s sitting at his empty bowl longingly, wondering why it is that her patience was not rewarded with a crumb. She looks at him, looks at the bowl then back at him with pure disappointment in her eyes. She wanted meatloaf too. Poor baby. After reading about Velvet Sacks’ close call with her meatloaf I started craving meatloaf so I had to make one. It was okay I guess. Cap didn’t complain and neither did the company who scarfed it like they had never eaten a meal before in their lives. The first night all Cap got was the bread I put at the bottom of the pan to soak up any grease. He enjoyed it though. It was gone in no time flat.

Cap is my breathing vacuum cleaner. If I drop food on the floor I let him do the enhaling thing. No worries that I dropped carrots and peas on the floor, Cap will get it. No worries that I spilled a spoon of sugar on the floor, Cap’ll get it. I don’t even have to replace vacuum bags. I give a simple “good boy” and go about my business. That’s what I call cleaning these days, Cap’ll get it. He takes care of the crumbs that I leave in the bed when I do my night time eating. That’s my boy, always willing to help out.

When I start the sweeper the only one that didn’t run was Bella. I think she and Grace had a talk and now Bella runs when I turn on the sweeper. I think Gracie taught her to be afraid of it because at first Bella wasn’t even fazed by the vacuum cleaner. Well, the other day when I was running the monster machine I decided to also sweep Bella’s toy bear rug teddy bear. It’s kinda big and it lays flat on its belly like a bear rug. She gets on it and does the kneading thing then falls asleep right on the bears head. I figured it was about time I vacuumed that thing just in case dander was trying to live in it or something. When I detached the hose and put it on the bears head she looked like she was going to fall over dead. NO, NOT MY BEAR! Ai, caramba! Bell was a bit upset with me for the rest of the day because I swept her security bear. I think she thought I might go as far as to put water and soap on it. Had I done that she would have packed her cat nip and run away from home.

She gets bored easily so I have to keep her busy. Sometimes when I’ve tried to entertain her but she just has too much energy and I’ve got too much stuff to do around the house I come up with alternative play. I take a laundry rope/string/whachamacallit and let it hang from my back pocket. While I work around the house it drags across the floor so she follows it and attacks it. She’s not trying to climb my fake trees. She’s not trying to get on the table to see if I left any food up there by chance. She’s not pulling the hair out of Captain’s tail or driving Gracie crazy to the point of Gracie swatting at her. Poor Bell needs a lot of attention. I just put that pink and white twisted rope in the back pocket and give the other 2/3 rds of the Three Stooges a break. She’s six months old now. On the 2nd of November she goes in to get spayed. As much as this girl talks while not in heat I can’t imagine going through her meowing and bitch goddess attitude that Gracie got when she was in heat. Man Grace got mean! So, Bell will be getting cut the second of November. I hope she doesn’t calm down because she is fun most of the time. It’s only when she has excess energy that she starts bothering the rest of the stooges. She keeps the others on their toes. Heck Keepers dog Shakespeare lived to be 18 years old because of her two cats Owen and Max. They are so pretty too, gorgeous cats.

I gotta write down my latest cat dream. I need to get ready to see the chiropracter first.

Austin

My Time To Heal

New Links added to the page My Time To Heal

Mothers Of Survivors

This blog is written by a woman that searched for information for her own support while her daughter heals from sexual abuse. She says she looked for advice on the net and found a bunch of stuff for survivors but not for the parents of survivors, not for mothers or fathers. This is something that never ever occurred to me, support for mothers of survivors. I thought this journal was good to put up on my links because the idea was totally foreign to me. It seems like a good journal with a mother who truly supports her daughters healing process. I thought it was quite the move to seek out other mothers who support their daughters. This is nice to see.

Blog Carnival Against Child Abuse: It’s the Fifth Edition!

This newest blog carnival seems like it has a wealth of information that survivors will really find helpful so I’m posting this for everybody so they can go check out the other links for themselves. I definitely encourage all in the right space to go to this. Marj is doing a really good thing by collecting information written by survivors.

I intend to be all on the post called No One Would Blame You” and

“Humiliating Others-Deliberate Abuse that Cuts Deep.” Marj says about this submission: “This post explores humiliation, why parents emotionally abuse their children in this way, and why children pass these borderline traits along to their children.” You couldn’t keep me from that post if you tried. My mother’s specialty was humiliation. As a matter of fact it is the one emotional response that will drive me to suicidal thinking. and

Last but not least I’ll be traveling to a post by a male survivor named Mike called “The Power of Touch.”.

This carnival is definitely one to go to.

Austin