marj aka thriver Says:
April 27th, 2007 at 11:36 am Austin: I read the x-ray post from Joan of Arc and just cracked up. But, I wanted to comment on this post because I’ve been dealing with “feeling the feelings” of isolation and loneliness on my own and with my T a lot lately. I even had a dream recently that had some old “lonely” theme song playing in the background and I woke up just feeling wretched! Good grief!
I’ve been working on how my parents kept me and my twin isolated from each other. We were allowed no comfort in our torture, no sharing, no reaching out, no compassion.
Then, in line with what I call my “fucked up synchroncity,” I had someone come and attack me on my blog and then say the cruelest, most hateful things to me via e-mail. But, I decided that there’s been way more good than bad in my blogging experience and I have a lot of things to be thankful for–especially insightful, human, people speaking their truth like you.
So, I decided to pull my head out of my dissociated butt and get caught up on a lot of things that I’ve been behind on for months. The blog carnival is hitting the road again, for one thing. You came and commented with a very good idea about the carnival like months ago and I was too wigged out to follow up. I’m sorry about that. I hope you haven’t given up on me and you’ll visit my blog again. 
Joan replies:
First of all, I love the way you put that, fucked up synchronicity. That’s good.
Give up on you? No way! I had to stop visiting blogs awhile back because of issues of my own. When readers pull back from reading possibly triggering blogs it’s because they know its best for them to do so. Never does it have to do with the blog but the reader, at least in many cases its that way. I feel really bad when I don’t come to certain blogs for a bit but when I don’t its because I know I can’t handle what “might” be talked about. I tell people all the time, if you aren’t in the right space then don’t come to Sundrip Journals because you never know what’s going to be posted. I might decide to talk about my x-ray experience or some gibberish about my drunken neighbor or I could talk in depth about abuse issues and how they effect me today. A reader never knows what they’ll get on my blogs so I always suggest that the reader be in the right space when clicking my link. Continue reading ‘Synchroncity (to Marj)’
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