Comments on: Female Sadists – Therapy Discussion 1of2

By: cerebralmum

cerebralmum — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 05:30:51 +0000

I completely agree with you about the rationalizing of female offenders’ behaviour and that people seem unable to accept the reality of it. I’m very glad you wrote about this.

By: Morton of Morton's Pride

Morton of Morton's Pride — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 05:11:41 +0000

reply by admin -

Aaron,
I know what it feels like to crave pain and I agree that true sadists only want to hurt those who are not consensual. I grew up knowing pain. It was after all my first language. But I personally long to separate myself from anything like how I grew up. Sometimes I feel compelled to do acts that were part of my abuse and that brings me great shame. I think the after affect of shame is part of the “fix” for me. But I’m working very hard to no longer revert back to my first language or derivatives of it. It is so very hard to learn a new language but it can be done. Perhaps I’ll never be fluent in health but I’d like to get to the point where I can communicate and be understood as a healthier speaking person. I’d encourage you to learn this new language too.

sincerely,
Morton of Morton’s Pride

By: aaron younger

aaron younger — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 04:03:42 +0000

I was beaten and mentally and physically tortured by my mother. Now, as an adult, I have developed a need to be abused by women. …….It seems they only hurt children. Or maybe it is because I am willing and the children are not. But now the need to be tortured is an affliction in itself. It is a compulsion and a desire that cannot be fulfilled without paying for it. What a fine way to grow up, needing to be tortured. ………..
aaron

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By: April_optimist

April_optimist — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 20:06:05 +0000

It’s scarier because in many ways as small children we were MORE dependent on our mothers. Mothers are supposed to protect us from sexual abuse. But as you say, we cannot protect children unless we’re willing to recognize that a mother can be a sexual abuser, too.

By: marj aka thriver

marj aka thriver — Tue, 22 Apr 2008 16:13:37 +0000

Yes, it was easy for many people to see that my father was a sadistic abuser, but my mother still has many, many people fooled. Thanks so much for letting us use this for this month’s BLOG CARNIVAL AGAINST CHILD ABUSE. We need to raise MUCH more awareness about this. Thanks for your courage and advocacy.