Comments on: Female Sadists - Therapy Discussion 2of2 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/04/17/female-sadists2of2/ Sundrip Journals Fri, 05 Dec 2008 00:50:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: CW http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/04/17/female-sadists2of2/#comment-4791 CW Sat, 18 Oct 2008 02:12:34 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=1415#comment-4791 <blockquote>I'd like to add a links here that support the notion that women and girls can, in fact, be sexual abusers. boysite.info/blog/?p=7 That has a lot of statistics and links. Thank you for posting on this issue. There is a lot of discussion on Reddit.com about female rapists and sexual abusers, and there are also examples of women who sexually abused boys, got pregnant, and collected child support from the boys. reddit.com/r/MensRights/search?q=FAQ&x=0&y=0</blockquote> (admin disabled links) <em>Thank you very much for the links and the information on your blog. I visited briefly and saw a few entries that I could relate to. The entry about the California law stating that domestic violence is when a woman gets hurt was rather disturbing. I am thrown that the law separates protection by gender. I know society does but when I see the states do it it's a bit more disturbing. Sincerely, Morton of Morton's Pride</em>

I’d like to add a links here that support the notion that women and girls can, in fact, be sexual abusers.

boysite.info/blog/?p=7

That has a lot of statistics and links. Thank you for posting on this issue.

There is a lot of discussion on Reddit.com about female rapists and sexual abusers, and there are also examples of women who sexually abused boys, got pregnant, and collected child support from the boys.

reddit.com/r/MensRights/search?q=FAQ&x=0&y=0

(admin disabled links)
Thank you very much for the links and the information on your blog. I visited briefly and saw a few entries that I could relate to. The entry about the California law stating that domestic violence is when a woman gets hurt was rather disturbing. I am thrown that the law separates protection by gender. I know society does but when I see the states do it it’s a bit more disturbing.

Sincerely,
Morton of Morton’s Pride

]]> By: Nancy Richards http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/04/17/female-sadists2of2/#comment-4632 Nancy Richards Tue, 23 Sep 2008 02:28:25 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=1415#comment-4632 Dear Austin, The horror of your experience is overwhelming. I just want you to know that your words touched me. Thank you for a provocative post! Nancy Dear Austin,

The horror of your experience is overwhelming.

I just want you to know that your words touched me.

Thank you for a provocative post!

Nancy

]]> By: Austin http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/04/17/female-sadists2of2/#comment-3136 Austin Thu, 17 Apr 2008 17:20:15 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=1415#comment-3136 I'm just thrown by how stuck people are in these social roles. We in the US talk a good game about making sure sexual abuse survivors heal. We open clinics, open support groups to heal but we're still stuck in the mind set that we are healing mainly from the sexual assaults of men. When female teachers molest their students it makes the news as well as late night TV. How does the abuse of a child turn into a joke? Jay Leno did it all the time which is why he's not welcome on my TV screen. People see the female offender differently than a male offender and they see the victim differently because of his gender. The studies, magazine articles, blog posts and conversations about if the boys had a part in the abuse or if it can be considered abuse would not take place if the offender was a man and the victim a teenage girl. I can't believe half the crap I hear about how the teenage boy may not be damaged by the abuse or may not be totally innocent. There was even a teacher that wrote on a blog that her male students flirt with her all the time and come on to her all the time. She said the boys want it. She has completely overlooked the fact that the child, CHILD is growing and has sexual feelings but it is the adults responsibility to know how to set a boundary and how to behave appropriately around children that aren't. But this isn't about puberty or hormonal teens, this is about how female pedophiles are able to fall back on excuses they make and excuses made for them. It's about how we just can't get ourselves unstuck and out of the idea that girls and made of sugar and spice and boys are dirty and horny. My point is that women and men alike are made of sugar and spice. Men and women alike violate but when they do only women are given excuses. Interesting is that male and female pedophiles are hardly ever seriously called to justice. They are released to offend again and again. That much they have in common when it comes to legal ramifications for violating a child. Austin I’m just thrown by how stuck people are in these social roles. We in the US talk a good game about making sure sexual abuse survivors heal. We open clinics, open support groups to heal but we’re still stuck in the mind set that we are healing mainly from the sexual assaults of men.

When female teachers molest their students it makes the news as well as late night TV. How does the abuse of a child turn into a joke? Jay Leno did it all the time which is why he’s not welcome on my TV screen.

People see the female offender differently than a male offender and they see the victim differently because of his gender. The studies, magazine articles, blog posts and conversations about if the boys had a part in the abuse or if it can be considered abuse would not take place if the offender was a man and the victim a teenage girl.

I can’t believe half the crap I hear about how the teenage boy may not be damaged by the abuse or may not be totally innocent. There was even a teacher that wrote on a blog that her male students flirt with her all the time and come on to her all the time. She said the boys want it. She has completely overlooked the fact that the child, CHILD is growing and has sexual feelings but it is the adults responsibility to know how to set a boundary and how to behave appropriately around children that aren’t. But this isn’t about puberty or hormonal teens, this is about how female pedophiles are able to fall back on excuses they make and excuses made for them. It’s about how we just can’t get ourselves unstuck and out of the idea that girls and made of sugar and spice and boys are dirty and horny.

My point is that women and men alike are made of sugar and spice. Men and women alike violate but when they do only women are given excuses. Interesting is that male and female pedophiles are hardly ever seriously called to justice. They are released to offend again and again. That much they have in common when it comes to legal ramifications for violating a child.

Austin

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