Comments on: About Your Passive Aggression http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/06/02/about-your-passive-aggression/ Sundrip Journals Sat, 22 Nov 2008 00:30:49 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: beautifuldreamer http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/06/02/about-your-passive-aggression/#comment-3656 beautifuldreamer Tue, 03 Jun 2008 17:40:36 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=1471#comment-3656 Passive aggressive behavior is so hard to get a hold of, to pinpoint. It plays on one's emotions in ways that outright physical violence doesn't. It's manipulative to the very core. I like that you express your feelings about this so bluntly.There is a familiarity about being mistreated which causes us abuse survivors to be drawn again and again to passive-aggressive individuals. But you've figured that out; you've figured out what she does that is so hurtful to you, and that it isn't simply a matter of not thinking before she speaks. She means to hurt, and knows how deeply to plunge the knife. Passive aggressive behavior is so hard to get a hold of, to pinpoint. It plays on one’s emotions in ways that outright physical violence doesn’t. It’s manipulative to the very core.

I like that you express your feelings about this so bluntly.There is a familiarity about being mistreated which causes us abuse survivors to be drawn again and again to passive-aggressive individuals. But you’ve figured that out; you’ve figured out what she does that is so hurtful to you, and that it isn’t simply a matter of not thinking before she speaks. She means to hurt, and knows how deeply to plunge the knife.

]]> By: Enola http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/06/02/about-your-passive-aggression/#comment-3655 Enola Tue, 03 Jun 2008 14:17:40 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=1471#comment-3655 Physical abuse is easier for me to recognize. I find it harder to recognize emotional/verbal abuse until after the fact. So I keep getting sucked in by passive aggressive stuff all the time too. Physical abuse is easier for me to recognize. I find it harder to recognize emotional/verbal abuse until after the fact. So I keep getting sucked in by passive aggressive stuff all the time too.

]]> By: risingrainbow http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/06/02/about-your-passive-aggression/#comment-3653 risingrainbow Tue, 03 Jun 2008 06:01:07 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=1471#comment-3653 I can relate to getting sucked in by passive agressive stuff. I find myself wondering why I am in the realtionship I am. Is it because it's comfortable? It sure isn't because it's nurturing. I can relate to getting sucked in by passive agressive stuff. I find myself wondering why I am in the realtionship I am. Is it because it’s comfortable? It sure isn’t because it’s nurturing.

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