Comments on: What I Heard You Say http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/08/06/what-i-heard-you-say/ Sundrip Journals Thu, 08 Jan 2009 12:21:00 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: wily http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/08/06/what-i-heard-you-say/#comment-4199 wily Wed, 06 Aug 2008 19:49:16 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=1796#comment-4199 I feel that austin. she just was not nice to you. from what you have written that is very clear. I am really sorry. my last boyfriend before my current one was a real SOB. he had some qualities that I loved but man he was just such a mean person that in the end it wasn't worth it. but it hurt and haunted me for a long time, I kept wondering what *I* could have done to make it different or not turn out so acrimoniously. but I guess he would have had to want to listen to me and respect me and make changes and well, that wasn't gonna happen. wishing a rain of healing blessings on you wily I feel that austin.

she just was not nice to you. from what you have written that is very clear.

I am really sorry.

my last boyfriend before my current one was a real SOB. he had some qualities that I loved but man he was just such a mean person that in the end it wasn’t worth it. but it hurt and haunted me for a long time, I kept wondering what *I* could have done to make it different or not turn out so acrimoniously. but I guess he would have had to want to listen to me and respect me and make changes and well, that wasn’t gonna happen.

wishing a rain of healing blessings on you
wily

]]> By: Austin http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/08/06/what-i-heard-you-say/#comment-4198 Austin Wed, 06 Aug 2008 18:30:32 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=1796#comment-4198 Being this raw over the situation with that girl I have a feeling had he worded this differently my reaction would have still been the same. It wasn't his wording it's my fear of being bad and capable of destroying most things that I touch. Being this raw over the situation with that girl I have a feeling had he worded this differently my reaction would have still been the same. It wasn’t his wording it’s my fear of being bad and capable of destroying most things that I touch.

]]> By: ClinicallyClueless http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/08/06/what-i-heard-you-say/#comment-4197 ClinicallyClueless Wed, 06 Aug 2008 15:37:21 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=1796#comment-4197 Writing for me is/was a lifesaver because I am clearer and it helps me to process. Then, reading it to my therapist helped me to stay present. Often times, it takes days for me to figure out what happened in session. You are definitely clear in your writing. I usually get a sense of your process and what is going on. I think, that is why some people blog. Like me and I sense for you too. Much easier than verbalizing. Writing for me is/was a lifesaver because I am clearer and it helps me to process. Then, reading it to my therapist helped me to stay present. Often times, it takes days for me to figure out what happened in session.

You are definitely clear in your writing. I usually get a sense of your process and what is going on. I think, that is why some people blog. Like me and I sense for you too. Much easier than verbalizing.

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