Comments on: Re-create and Destroy - UPDATED http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/08/18/recreate-and-destroy/ Sundrip Journals Thu, 08 Jan 2009 12:20:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.5 By: Beauty http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/08/18/recreate-and-destroy/#comment-4312 Beauty Mon, 18 Aug 2008 19:50:06 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=1922#comment-4312 I don't think I can add to the other comments, they're all so well written. It does take courage to write about this subject, and that's at least one thing positive you're doing, rather than struggling alone and keeping the whole issue hidden. I too wish you the best as you work through this... I don’t think I can add to the other comments, they’re all so well written. It does take courage to write about this subject, and that’s at least one thing positive you’re doing, rather than struggling alone and keeping the whole issue hidden.

I too wish you the best as you work through this…

]]> By: Enola http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/08/18/recreate-and-destroy/#comment-4311 Enola Mon, 18 Aug 2008 17:53:24 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=1922#comment-4311 In almost every book on abuse I've read (and there have been tons), there is a section about survivors who need to do some of the same things you've posted about. Or survivors who can only enjoy sex by fantaasizing about their abuse or acting it out. Considering how many times I've heard and read that, I'd dare say that nothing you have written is unusual, odd or "twisted." I think that it is one of the ways we survivors continue to punish ourselves in the here and now. Will you bring this up in therapy? I'd be curious to see what he says. I know that I often felt the need to release energy after a T session. I'd do some intense blogging, go exercise, go somewhere and rant, rave, cry. Something to release the tension, anger and emotions that are so easily stirred during T sessions. In almost every book on abuse I’ve read (and there have been tons), there is a section about survivors who need to do some of the same things you’ve posted about. Or survivors who can only enjoy sex by fantaasizing about their abuse or acting it out. Considering how many times I’ve heard and read that, I’d dare say that nothing you have written is unusual, odd or “twisted.” I think that it is one of the ways we survivors continue to punish ourselves in the here and now.

Will you bring this up in therapy? I’d be curious to see what he says.

I know that I often felt the need to release energy after a T session. I’d do some intense blogging, go exercise, go somewhere and rant, rave, cry. Something to release the tension, anger and emotions that are so easily stirred during T sessions.

]]> By: Tamara http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2008/08/18/recreate-and-destroy/#comment-4310 Tamara Mon, 18 Aug 2008 16:16:52 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=1922#comment-4310 That took a lot of courage to post. You are so open and honest with your feelings and your healing process. I admire you for that. I agree with wily - you have a lot of power in you! I know that you will figure out the best way to use it. That took a lot of courage to post. You are so open and honest with your feelings and your healing process. I admire you for that.

I agree with wily - you have a lot of power in you! I know that you will figure out the best way to use it.

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