Comments on: Profile of a Sadistic Woman Pt 2-2 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2009/11/09/profile-of-a-sadistic-woman-2/ Sundrip Journals Sun, 12 Feb 2012 09:44:04 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: wily http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2009/11/09/profile-of-a-sadistic-woman-2/comment-page-1/#comment-7739 wily Sat, 14 Nov 2009 13:59:35 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=5490#comment-7739 Abusers abuse because they can. Not because they were given some kind of special gift in life. They tend to be petty narcissists who take advantage of the situations they find themselves in. How could we have responded differently to "abuse" when we didn't know it was abuse? If you raise a dog in a cage its whole life the cage is normal. The day someone opens the cage and takes the dog out is only the beginning of understanding a whole lot of other shit about life. Love you, wily Abusers abuse because they can. Not because they were given some kind of special gift in life. They tend to be petty narcissists who take advantage of the situations they find themselves in.

How could we have responded differently to “abuse” when we didn’t know it was abuse? If you raise a dog in a cage its whole life the cage is normal. The day someone opens the cage and takes the dog out is only the beginning of understanding a whole lot of other shit about life.

Love you,
wily

]]> By: enola http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2009/11/09/profile-of-a-sadistic-woman-2/comment-page-1/#comment-7727 enola Tue, 10 Nov 2009 19:04:52 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=5490#comment-7727 This is both a post of sadness and relief. Sadness because our abusers are so prevalent. But relief that I'm not the only one who suffered. There is some comfort in knowing I'm not alone - but also sadness. If that makes sense. This is both a post of sadness and relief. Sadness because our abusers are so prevalent. But relief that I’m not the only one who suffered. There is some comfort in knowing I’m not alone – but also sadness. If that makes sense.

]]> By: lili http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2009/11/09/profile-of-a-sadistic-woman-2/comment-page-1/#comment-7725 lili Tue, 10 Nov 2009 16:25:13 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=5490#comment-7725 My ex-best friends entire family is like this. Just as mellow and drab to everyone in the neighborhood and completely psychotic. It took a bad decision for her to free herself from the situation and years and years or therapy but the damage was done. I'd like to give a happy ending to this but all I can say is:the cycle was continued. Many blessings and strength to you. My ex-best friends entire family is like this. Just as mellow and drab to everyone in the neighborhood and completely psychotic. It took a bad decision for her to free herself from the situation and years and years or therapy but the damage was done. I’d like to give a happy ending to this but all I can say is:the cycle was continued.

Many blessings and strength to you.

]]> By: Kate http://www.sundrip.com/journal/2009/11/09/profile-of-a-sadistic-woman-2/comment-page-1/#comment-7722 Kate Tue, 10 Nov 2009 05:20:34 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/?p=5490#comment-7722 Yes, you are right. Your mother is nothing special. Yes, you are right. Yes, you are right. You are not different than other survivors who have gone through this kind of abuse. I can relate to what you share. Good and healing thoughts to you. Kate Yes, you are right. Your mother is nothing special. Yes, you are right. Yes, you are right. You are not different than other survivors who have gone through this kind of abuse. I can relate to what you share. Good and healing thoughts to you.

Kate

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