Comments on: My Time To Heal http://www.sundrip.com/journal Sundrip Journals Mon, 06 Feb 2012 19:42:41 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Scott Abraham http://www.sundrip.com/journal/my-time-to-heal/comment-page-1/#comment-9497 Scott Abraham Wed, 16 Jun 2010 17:02:47 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/my-time-to-heal/#comment-9497 Hey, Faith? I notice that my posts aren't readable. I'm betting that means you have banned me from responding to personal attacks, gross defamation, lies by Bob Thompson and lies by you. Want to tell me again what felony I committed? Shame on you is right. You are a victim, not a survivor, utterly without any apparent ethical standards. Here' a clue. You'll be a survivor when you can admit to a mistake, correct a mistake, and take responsibility for your mistakes, not threaten legal action on a survivor who caught you in the mistake. Your shame. And you can keep it. Good luck trying to convince a court that I have threatened you: in the mind of a professional victim, anyone who sees reality and tells the truth is a threat. As I have seen you and told the truth about you, and you act like your new friend Bob Thompson, who has made thousands of jokes taunting me for being raped as a child. You just bonded with and defended a perp. Which should tell you something. Shame on you. Shame. Hey, Faith?
I notice that my posts aren’t readable. I’m betting that means you have banned me from responding to personal attacks, gross defamation, lies by Bob Thompson and lies by you.
Want to tell me again what felony I committed?
Shame on you is right. You are a victim, not a survivor, utterly without any apparent ethical standards.
Here’ a clue. You’ll be a survivor when you can admit to a mistake, correct a mistake, and take responsibility for your mistakes, not threaten legal action on a survivor who caught you in the mistake.
Your shame. And you can keep it. Good luck trying to convince a court that I have threatened you: in the mind of a professional victim, anyone who sees reality and tells the truth is a threat. As I have seen you and told the truth about you, and you act like your new friend Bob Thompson, who has made thousands of jokes taunting me for being raped as a child.
You just bonded with and defended a perp. Which should tell you something.

Shame on you. Shame.

]]> By: Scott Abraham http://www.sundrip.com/journal/my-time-to-heal/comment-page-1/#comment-9496 Scott Abraham Wed, 16 Jun 2010 16:56:03 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/my-time-to-heal/#comment-9496 Hey, Faith? You state corrections have been made. Then correct your own lies about me. You state you're "definetely interest in his felony conviction." What conviction? You just stated that I have a felony conviction. Care to tell me what I was convicted of, because in the real world, never arrested, never convicted, never have even had a conversationw ith the cops about ANY crime other than traffic offenses. And then you have the utter gall to call me an "internet predator" for objecting to YOUR lies? The only professional victim in this dynamic is you, claiming that you feel threatened because you have defamed me. Pretty ridiculous stuff. So here's some advice from a real survivor, not a professional victim. The only path to true recovery is to live an ethical life, and to own and correct your mistakes. Instead of immediately trying to frame yourself as a victim, when in reality you have made an obvious and correctable mistake, admit to your mistake, fix your mistake, and be responsible for your actions. Don't spew all kinds of empty threats: all that behavior does is shame you more. Deal with your shame. You've been conned by a freak. Do something about it. Oh, yes. Remove any mention of Menweb from your site. We do not want to be associated with you in any way. If you are going to allow the filth Bob Thompson posted to stand, you simply do not measure up to our ethical standards. Hey, Faith?
You state corrections have been made.
Then correct your own lies about me.
You state you’re “definetely interest in his felony conviction.”
What conviction? You just stated that I have a felony conviction. Care to tell me what I was convicted of, because in the real world, never arrested, never convicted, never have even had a conversationw ith the cops about ANY crime other than traffic offenses.
And then you have the utter gall to call me an “internet predator” for objecting to YOUR lies?
The only professional victim in this dynamic is you, claiming that you feel threatened because you have defamed me. Pretty ridiculous stuff.
So here’s some advice from a real survivor, not a professional victim. The only path to true recovery is to live an ethical life, and to own and correct your mistakes. Instead of immediately trying to frame yourself as a victim, when in reality you have made an obvious and correctable mistake, admit to your mistake, fix your mistake, and be responsible for your actions. Don’t spew all kinds of empty threats: all that behavior does is shame you more.
Deal with your shame. You’ve been conned by a freak. Do something about it.
Oh, yes. Remove any mention of Menweb from your site. We do not want to be associated with you in any way. If you are going to allow the filth Bob Thompson posted to stand, you simply do not measure up to our ethical standards.

]]> By: Scott Abraham http://www.sundrip.com/journal/my-time-to-heal/comment-page-1/#comment-9495 Scott Abraham Wed, 16 Jun 2010 16:49:03 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/my-time-to-heal/#comment-9495 Jaga: I have every right in the world to defend myself against false allegations and defamatory lies, and your buddy Faith has repeated those lies. Which makes her a liar. Not to mention that she just labeled me as an "internet predator", when all I have done is catch her in a morally and ethically indefensible position. Apparently you believe that people should be allowed to lie, defame, and stalk on Faith's site without any control whatsoever. Clue time. I've done more for survivors over the last twenty years than you and your buddies will ever do, and to be treated with such dishonesty and utter lack of any ethical standards by fellow survivors just goes to show you how psychopaths like Bob Thompson still have power over victims. Tell me something (not that you are capable of reasonable discussion when your friend is exposed in her shame): if YOU were called a felon and a child molester on this site, how would YOU act? Now go straight to victim instead of taking responsibility for your behavior and acting like healthy survivors instead of professional victimsm, like your buddy Faith did when I objected to her unethical behavior. Your shame, not mine. Grow up. You got conned by a perp. Jaga:

I have every right in the world to defend myself against false allegations and defamatory lies, and your buddy Faith has repeated those lies. Which makes her a liar.
Not to mention that she just labeled me as an “internet predator”, when all I have done is catch her in a morally and ethically indefensible position.
Apparently you believe that people should be allowed to lie, defame, and stalk on Faith’s site without any control whatsoever.
Clue time. I’ve done more for survivors over the last twenty years than you and your buddies will ever do, and to be treated with such dishonesty and utter lack of any ethical standards by fellow survivors just goes to show you how psychopaths like Bob Thompson still have power over victims.
Tell me something (not that you are capable of reasonable discussion when your friend is exposed in her shame): if YOU were called a felon and a child molester on this site, how would YOU act?
Now go straight to victim instead of taking responsibility for your behavior and acting like healthy survivors instead of professional victimsm, like your buddy Faith did when I objected to her unethical behavior.
Your shame, not mine. Grow up. You got conned by a perp.

]]> By: Scott Abraham http://www.sundrip.com/journal/my-time-to-heal/comment-page-1/#comment-9493 Scott Abraham Wed, 16 Jun 2010 16:42:58 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/my-time-to-heal/#comment-9493 Hey, Sean? Are you so devoid of any ethical standards that you think it is "sad" that I demand your friend remove defamatory lies from her site, including false allegations of molesting children and being a convicted felon? The disgusting statement that over twenty years of selfless work to help survivors is motivated by nefarious motives? What is sad is that you apparently have no ethical standards. What is sad is that you are stuck in victim. Try to shame someone else, Sean. It is your behavior that is shameful: you've been conned by a stalking psychopathic pathological liar. Shame on you for writing that crap. Hey, Sean?
Are you so devoid of any ethical standards that you think it is “sad” that I demand your friend remove defamatory lies from her site, including false allegations of molesting children and being a convicted felon? The disgusting statement that over twenty years of selfless work to help survivors is motivated by nefarious motives?
What is sad is that you apparently have no ethical standards.
What is sad is that you are stuck in victim.
Try to shame someone else, Sean. It is your behavior that is shameful: you’ve been conned by a stalking psychopathic pathological liar.
Shame on you for writing that crap.

]]> By: Scott Abraham http://www.sundrip.com/journal/my-time-to-heal/comment-page-1/#comment-9492 Scott Abraham Wed, 16 Jun 2010 16:39:39 +0000 http://www.sundrip.com/journal/my-time-to-heal/#comment-9492 To Sean and Faith: You've been conned by a stalking perpetrator who lies like he breathes, an obsessed freak who has made literally hundreds of jokes about me being raped and repeatedly falsely accuses me of molesting children. Not to mention that you repeat his lie that I am a convicted felon, then make weaselly excuses for not verifying that lie...which cannot be verified. When you repeat a lie, you are a liar yourself. And you have been manipulated by a truly psychopathic liar, Bob Thompson. A decent and ethical person would at least have the integrity to inquire about defamatory lies before allowing those lies to stand on your website. You not only have provided a venue for a pathological liar to falsely accuse me of molesting children, you have the gall and the deranged logic to threaten ME for defending myself and telling the truth. How sick are you? How dishonest are you? How vile are you to try and label me as an "internet predator" for pointing out your dishonesty and lack of integrity? Shame on you. My articles have been up for over fifteen years. Over FIVE MILLION hits on that site. I've been answering emails from survivors for all that time. Thousands of them. And I have never made a cent. Costs me money and my time. In short, I've done more to help survivors than any of you will do in your lifetimes. I could care less if you deleted references to MENWEB. Indeed, given your utter lack of health, perception, and integrity in this matter, I would demand you do so: I do not want to be associated with professional victims like you and your friends, who are incapable of admitting that they have been conned by a pathological liar, and who, when exposed in their dishonesty, take no responsibility for their behaviors. You're not survivors. You're victims, acting like victims. Now you know why the freaks of rsa and Bob Thompson hate me and fear me. I odn't like dishonest liars, and I take great pleasure in exposing them. As you have just been exposed. Because on your web site, under your control, you have accused me of being a child molester, a convicted felon, and an internet predator. You've been conned by a perp, and you're defending a perp, while lying and defaming and harming my reputation, and I was out there working for survivors when you didn't even have a clue. So much for gratitude. So much for honesty, integrity, and ethics. Shame on you. To Sean and Faith:

You’ve been conned by a stalking perpetrator who lies like he breathes, an obsessed freak who has made literally hundreds of jokes about me being raped and repeatedly falsely accuses me of molesting children.
Not to mention that you repeat his lie that I am a convicted felon, then make weaselly excuses for not verifying that lie…which cannot be verified.
When you repeat a lie, you are a liar yourself. And you have been manipulated by a truly psychopathic liar, Bob Thompson.
A decent and ethical person would at least have the integrity to inquire about defamatory lies before allowing those lies to stand on your website. You not only have provided a venue for a pathological liar to falsely accuse me of molesting children, you have the gall and the deranged logic to threaten ME for defending myself and telling the truth.
How sick are you? How dishonest are you? How vile are you to try and label me as an “internet predator” for pointing out your dishonesty and lack of integrity?
Shame on you.
My articles have been up for over fifteen years. Over FIVE MILLION hits on that site. I’ve been answering emails from survivors for all that time. Thousands of them. And I have never made a cent. Costs me money and my time.
In short, I’ve done more to help survivors than any of you will do in your lifetimes.
I could care less if you deleted references to MENWEB. Indeed, given your utter lack of health, perception, and integrity in this matter, I would demand you do so: I do not want to be associated with professional victims like you and your friends, who are incapable of admitting that they have been conned by a pathological liar, and who, when exposed in their dishonesty, take no responsibility for their behaviors.
You’re not survivors. You’re victims, acting like victims.

Now you know why the freaks of rsa and Bob Thompson hate me and fear me. I odn’t like dishonest liars, and I take great pleasure in exposing them. As you have just been exposed. Because on your web site, under your control, you have accused me of being a child molester, a convicted felon, and an internet predator.
You’ve been conned by a perp, and you’re defending a perp, while lying and defaming and harming my reputation, and I was out there working for survivors when you didn’t even have a clue. So much for gratitude. So much for honesty, integrity, and ethics.
Shame on you.

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